Is it possible to be immensely talented, yet be insecure about oneself? As unlikely as it might seem, human history is rife with instances of men and women, who though talented, have failed to make it big in life. While some managed to rise above their insecurities, many never did. Even as human history paints [...]
Cool people always go ahead in life. They get the best jobs, better raises, better friends, and all the good things in life one can care for. Hence, being cool is positively critical. Everyone yearns to be cool. However, only a few manage to pull off a ‘cool’ show. Being cool is not exclusively about [...]
Are you someone who likes to keep things to yourself rather than saddling others with your stories? Well, then here is a quick reality check for you. Expressing oneself is clearly not a breeze and not everyone finds it easy to express their feelings naturally. However, that doesn’t mean that you withhold your feelings or [...]
You might have noticed that some people spread cheer wherever they go. They are amazingly positive and always pleasant. This is because they are happy with what they do and most importantly, what they are. It is only when a person feels satisfied and lives a life of fulfillment, can he feel good about himself. [...]
“Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the face.” These are the words from Helen Keller, a lady who conquered the world with her self-confidence and self-esteem. Before getting into how to build self-esteem, you should be clear about the concept of self-esteem. In simple words, it is your [...]
Are you someone who often doubts your own abilities or worth as a person? Are your insecurities justified or unfounded? Believing in yourself is not very hard. Sadly, not too many people realize it. It is easy to think that believing in oneself is easier than believing in others. However, a look around us clearly [...]
While in office, do you suffer from “catagelophobia” (fear of being ridiculed)? Do you think your boss snubs you for the smallest of errors as he suffers from “atelophobia” (fear of imperfection) or does not accept any of your fresh ideas as he is afflicted with “cainophobia” (fear of newness, novelty)? Are you the one [...]
With so many interesting people around, don’t you wish you could just talk to all of them and find ways to break the ice? Starting a conversation comes easily to some while it can be a daunting and overwhelming task for many. There are many who can kickoff conversations effortlessly and can be so great [...]
Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Fear defeats more people than any other thing in the world.” Fear is all-pervasive. People invariably encounter fear in their day-to-day lives—often triggered by spontaneous accidents, fear of loss, etc. Fear is a negative emotion, a psychological barrier that prevents one from progressing in life. At the same time, this [...]
You suddenly enter a room to find a large group of unfamiliar faces, all heading to greet you. You shake, sweat, and fluster and the first thing you want to do is cut and run. If this situation sounds remotely close to you, or if you have made an idiot of yourself before by being [...]